
Dating in our generation can be challenging, but we can choose to navigate it with greater intentionality. By being clear about our desires and expectations, we can foster more genuine and fulfilling connections.
Swipe Right, Swipe Left: Has Millennial Dating Lost its Charm?
The dating landscape has drastically shifted since our fathers' generation. Courtship, with its elaborate rituals and patient pursuit, seems like a relic of the past. Today, the fast-paced world of social media and dating apps has ushered in a new era of dating, one characterised by instant gratification and a focus on fleeting connections.
Millennials, raised in a digital age, often prioritise immediate chemistry over deeper, more meaningful interactions. Scheduling a first date can feel more like a casual meet-up than a carefully planned courtship. The pressure to "click" quickly can lead to rushed encounters, where the primary goal seems to be assessing physical attraction within minutes.
This isn't to say that meaningful connections are impossible in the digital age. However, the abundance of choices and the ease of moving on to the next potential match can create a culture of impatience and superficiality.
The role of mutual friends can significantly impact the dynamics of a budding relationship. A trusted friend who values genuine connection can encourage both parties to prioritize deeper conversations and meaningful interactions.
Ultimately, the success of millennial dating lies in finding a balance between embracing the convenience of modern technology and cultivating meaningful human connection.
There are numerous terms used to describe casual dating, including 'hook up,' 'hangout,' 'Netflix and Chill,' 'jam,' and 'What You Saying,' to name a few.
We exist in a world dominated by "The Text Factor," where texting reigns supreme as the primary mode of communication. This constant, often fleeting exchange has diluted meaningful conversation, fostering a culture of misrepresentation and superficiality.
Phone calls, once a common and intimate form of interaction, are now reserved for emergencies or transactional needs, perceived as outdated and inefficient.
This shift in communication mirrors a broader decline in moral and ethical values. What was once considered unacceptable behaviour is now normalised, as societal standards erode and become increasingly mundane.
In this landscape, I celebrate the "sorcerers of relationships," the "pharaohs of romance," and the "cupids of love" – those who resist the pull of this new, conformist generation. May we recognise and cherish these individuals who value genuine human connection.
Love is a profound and beautiful experience, and dating should be a joyful exploration of another person.
True dating, in my view, involves courtship – a deliberate and intentional process of getting to know someone. This entails shared experiences: enjoying drinks at a cosy bar, watching a film in the cinema, attending a captivating play, embarking on a scenic boat cruise, engaging in friendly competition at a snooker table or bowling alley, seeking thrills together on an adventurous outing, creating a shared reading list and discussing favourite books, exploring the city together, surprising your partner with thoughtful gestures like flowers or tickets to a game.
There are countless ways to connect with someone, and the journey of discovery can be incredibly enriching. Embrace the art of courtship and rediscover the magic of genuine human interaction.

At MME we don't believe dating is dead, we believe everyone has a choice! So choose respect, love, romance, happiness, friendship, loyalty, trust, patience, creativity, imperfection and vulnerability.